Yes , I Have Failed In Past.......

"This article is specially for such people who thinks that there past failure will now going to effect there every future exams , interview and now it's very difficult for them to achieve."

I want to share LESSONS OF FAILURE , with you -

Lord, are you trying to tell me something?

For...

Failure does not mean I'm a failure;

It means I have not yet succeeded.

Failure does not mean I have accomplished nothing;

It means I have learned something.

Failure does not mean I have been a fool;

It means I had enough faith to experiment.

Failure does not mean I am disgraced;

It means I dared to try.

Failure does not mean I don't have it;

It means I have something to do in a different way.

Failure does not mean I am inferior;

It means I an not perfect.

Failure does not mean i have wasted my life;

It means I have a chance to start over.

Failure does not mean that I should give up;

It means I should try harder.

Failure does not mean that I will never make it;

It means that I need more practice.

Failure does not mean that you have abandoned me;

It means you must have a better idea. 

My Dear Failure Friends , 

When i say failure , then it include me also. I have failed a lot. You might have heard about Quarterly and Half Yearly exam's which are conducted in school. After exam's when teacher used to distribute Report Card's than my friend's used to say " Utkarsh , tera report card to bilkul garden bana hua hai , jismein red , green and blue flower's khile hue hain"...( if one score more then 60 than it will be written in blue ink , if just passed then in green ink and if one got failed then in red ink ) and after distribution of report card my teacher's always used to love me a lot with stick and rain of slaps. 

Yes i have failed a lot in my past and it's completely true but i have also achieved and still achieving  a lot in my present that is also true.

My friends are mailing me regarding there failure's and they are afraid also that there failure in past will not let them succeed in present or future. Well i do not know whether your past failure's will act as a hindrance in achieving your target in present or future , but such thinking will definitely lead you to fail again.

Every human being , Every creature ,Every single entity in this world have failed many a times in their life. We read inspirational quotes written by Swami Vivekanand  and other great personalities , Those people also have failed many a times in their life. Failure is a part of our life. 

Some times we achieve , Some times we fail . Some times we get screen out , Some time gets conference out but there will be a time when you will get RECOMMENDED.

Few said that they have created a new record in the history of getting back - logs in their engineering college.

Few said that they failed in their 12th board twice or thrice.. and few other examples of failure.. 

You know what is the main problem , when you keep on repeating your mistakes , even after knowing it that this will lead to an ultimate failure but because of lack of self control we could not restrict our self from repeating such mistakes. DEVELOP SELF - CONTROL, this is the only solution.

One start thinking about his past failure's and keep on de- moralizing himself .Yes , deeply analysis of your failure is required but once you have analysed and now you know the reason of your failure than immediately stopped thinking about your past failure. Now put your all effort's to get rid - off from those drawbacks.

Stop thinking about your neighbours, society , relatives and other people who laughs at your failure. Let them laugh. They are the exact example of weak personality. You know why they laugh on your failure because the truth is they are coward and they have never succeeded and will never succeed. They get a kind of immense pleasure by stating themselves that " I am not alone , He also failed " and his level of failure is higher than mine. hahahahahaha...Such people are only Chirkutssssss........ They will never stop comparing and this shows that their life and mentality is so unhealthy that they are more interested in day to day happening of your life .  

Only and only think about your parents , near and dear ones who are truthful to you and really care for you ..Rest all are not important..

 If you have failed in your past then accept it. Yes i have failed.. You Notice IO will always ask what are reasons of your failure. To know whether you have analysed and improved your self or not. Tell him with all proud that " yes sir , i have failed due to this reasons and then i improved my self and get passed ." Do not loose your confidence and trust "

 I will tell you the story of Abraham Lincoln - 

Abraham Lincoln Didn't Quit

Probably the greatest example of persistence is Abraham Lincoln. If you want to learn about somebody who didn't quit, look no further. 

Born into poverty, Lincoln was faced with defeat throughout his life. He lost eight elections, twice failed in business and suffered a nervous breakdown. He could have quit many times – but he didn't and because he didn't quit, he became one of the greatest presidents in the history of America.

Lincoln was a champion and he never gave up. Here is a sketch of Lincoln’s road to the White House:

1816 His family was forced out of their home. He had to work to support them.

1818 His mother died.

1831 Failed in business.

1832 Ran for state legislature – lost.

l832 Also lost his job – wanted to go to law school but couldn't get in.

1833 Borrowed some money from a friend to begin a business and by the end of the year he was bankrupt. 

He spent the next 17 years of his life paying off this debt.

1834 Ran for state legislature again – lost.

1835 Was engaged to be married, sweetheart died and his heart was broken.

1836 Had a total nervous breakdown and was in bed for six months.

1838 Sought to become speaker of the state legislature – defeated.

1840 Sought to become elector – defeated.

1843 Ran for Congress – lost.

1846 Ran for Congress again – this time he won – went to Washington and did a good job.

1848 Ran for re-election to Congress – lost.

1849 Sought the job of land officer in his home state – rejected.

1854 Ran for Senate of the United States – lost.

1856 Sought the Vice-Presidential nomination at his party’s national convention – get less than 100 votes.

1858 Ran for U.S. Senate again – again he lost.

1860 Elected president of the United States.

Now do not get a wrong message by this story  .Haan..... If you are thinking that " i have also failed a lot and one day i will become president of India , than wake up from your this dream. " 

Failure teaches a lot of new things and the day you will achieve your goal , it will show how a weak person emerged victorious by his great efforts and hard work.

" Do not ever loose your faith, Have trust on your abilities , Do not cheat your self " , Keep doing hard work, irrespective of the result  and you will get each and every thing.

JAI HIND




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