CONFIDENCE Is the key to get selected

Dear Friends ,

Today I want to give you the concept behind CONFIDENCE.

You must be aware of this term "Officer Like Qualities". Most of the OLQ's directly depends on your confidence. I will explain how.

What is CONFIDENCE - It simply means how much you trust your self. If I trust my self , then I am confident and the level of this confidence keep on increasing , when you level of trust is keep on rising.

Confidence = Trust your self.

Now how this trust start building ?. I will explain you with an example.

A boy Ramesh who lacks confidence drawn a plan to develop it ...

Ramesh - He drawn a very strict schedule. I will wake up at 5 a.m. , then i will go for jogging , at 6.30 i will take bath and then sit for pooja . 7.30 breakfast time , 8 -10 I will study , At 10 I will go to college. At 5 i will come back from college. will get refresh till 5.30 and then go for a walk. 6 - 10 i will study. At 10 i will take my dinner and 10 - 11 some movie, FB etc. At 11 i will go to sleep.

Next day he followed the scheduled plan. After then he started avoiding that plan. " yaar aaj thodha aur so leta hun..kal se pakka 5 baje uthunga " ," yaar aaj raat Girl friend is baat kar leta hun , kal se pakka 11 baje so jaunga" ......... Ramesh started cheating himself and some where inside his mind he was also aware of this truth that he is cheating himself. He never developed trust inside him and at last he end with low confident person...

DO NOT LIE TO YOUR SELF, DO NOT CHEAT YOUR SELF, YOU KNOW YOUR CAPABILITIES , YOU CAN ENHANCE THEM ONLY BY TRUE EFFORTS AND THIS WILL BUILT YOUR CONFIDENCE.


In SSB , if you do not believe your self , if you do not trust your self and the you expect from IO , GTO and Psych that they will trust you , they will show their confidence on you. " Foolish thinking"

Do not lie - because this will reduce your trust on you. This will make you coward.

Make very strong commitment to your self that i will do it , and i have to do it,, chahe kuch bhi ho jaye... Once you have decided then you have to do it.. THINK TWICE BEFORE TAKING ANY DECISION BUT ONCE THE DECISION HAS BEEN TAKEN THEN DO NOT THINK AGAIN.

Confidence will built leadership skills, when people start showing there confidence on you  and you will start shouldering the responsibility. you will lead them and they will follow you because they trust you , This  is called Leader ship ....You will start earning trust of other people and believe me my friends this is the best gift which any one can give you.

You will start thinking for those people who trust you . Example A small kid trust his mother and father, kid knows it very well they will feed him, they will keep him safe, and kids such feeling toward's his parents build a sense of responsibility , caring and diligence in parents.

So you can see that if you have trust on your self then it will builds confidence , confidence leads to leadership . leadership leads to become a responsible person and many many more qualities.



" ek baar jo meine commitement kar di to mein apni aap ki bhi nhn sunta" - we took salman's this as a joke but if we really implement this in our life then you will get rid off from the problem of low confidence. 

You will start achieving difficult task , you will face your problems and get free from them . This all contribute to build a very strong and confident personality.


               

              CONFIDENCE IS THE ESSENTIAL REQUIREMENT OF AN OFFICER.   


JAI HIND..



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